We all rely on our friends, family, and co-workers to help us through tough times. Reaching out and making use of a sympathetic ear or two are crucial strategies for self-care and mental health. Our support circles provide us with the validation, encouragement, and energy we need to carry on. And when we’re called upon to support others, we can be there for them, too. But some people tend to take advantage of their relationships, taking more than they give.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re a shower or a grower but weren’t sure exactly how to make the determination, you’re in luck — science has the answer. And it turns out knowing the difference isn’t just a fun fact about yourself. saidAccording to research presented this week at the European Association of Urology Congress in Milan, understanding how penises grow is important when making surgical decisions. “It is important to be able to predict if a patient is a grower or a shower as when we see them, they are usually in a flaccid state,” Manuel Alonso-Isa, a urologist at the University Hospital HM Puerta del Sur in Madrid, Spain, explained in a press release.

The Atlanta Hawks’ guard, Trae Young, might get traded to the Brooklyn Nets this summer. Playmakers are really important for any team, and nobody knows this better than the Nets, who have an astounding roster. With a lot of 3 and D wings and a defensive big man in their squad, they are set to compete for the title next season, but landing a playmaker would give them a huge boost.

Young people don’t own sex, but they do tend to have more of it. Studies show that sex starts to decline after around 40. The reasons why will vary. For women, widowhood can become a significant factor. Of course, hormonal changes can drastically affect libido in both men and women. As men age, testosterone tends to dip and dull sexual performance. Changes in estrogen levels can make sexual desire more difficult to achieve, and sexual response more difficult to inspire.

We all want a germ-free home. Sometimes that’s easier said than done, especially if you have kids and pets. We diligently haul out the disinfecting sprays and wipe down kitchen countertops, bathrooms and laminate floors. But what about hardwood floors? “Hardwood floors can be a beautiful and durable addition to any space,” says Andrii Gurskyi, founder of the New York City maid service HomeClean. “But they can also be a breeding ground for bacteria and viruses.